A working prototype · private, on your device
A deck of warm, tasteful questions — for the nervous minutes before a date, the long middle of one, and the slow work of knowing someone for years. Draw one at a time. What you've already asked is remembered here, just for the two of you. You can always pass.
Everything here lives only on this device — no account, nothing sent. There are no right answers and no wrong ones, and passing on any question is always okay; the point is closeness, not a quiz. In the spirit of Aron and colleagues' research on how mutual, escalating self-disclosure builds closeness — see the 36 Questions — and of the Gottmans' idea of the love map, the ever-updating knowledge of each other's inner world. The questions here are our own.