partnersin.love

A working prototype · consent-first by design

Where you both are, right now.

A boundary keyring you control: mark your enthusiastic yeses, your ask-me-firsts, your curiosities, and your hard limits — then see the honest intersection with someone, and affirm it fresh, together.

A green key is a signal in this moment — never a contract, never a receipt. Consent here is verbal, ongoing, and revocable; this tool only helps you keep it current. It will never say "they agreed," only "this is where you both are right now." For adults (18+). It can't assess capacity — if anyone's not clear-headed, it's a no. A no, or a change of heart, never needs a reason.

Mark what's true for you

private · encrypted on your device · change it anytime
Enthusiastic yes Ask me in the moment Curious / maybe Hard limit
Health window — optional, only you see this
If barrier-free is on your ring, you can note when you last tested and the cadence you've agreed to. If the window's gone stale, the meeting will gently flag it.

Before a scene, you'd each open your key and exchange it by a tap or a scan — no account, no server. Here, set a stand-in partner key, and we'll compose the honest intersection on this device. Nothing is uploaded; nothing is kept as a record.

Partner key

One real question

Both of you — clear-headed, unhurried, and genuinely willing, right now?

I'm clear & willing They've said the same
A green light, just for now.
This signal is for this moment only — it doesn't carry to tomorrow, and either of you can change it without a word. Keep talking; the key is the conversation, not a substitute for it.

In the real product these keys are short-lived, signed, and encrypted to each other at exchange time — never a central ledger of who consented to what (that would be a honeypot). They expire on their own, so nothing lingers as "still valid" tomorrow. Built on the zero-knowledge layer.